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Honestly this post really emphasizes something my mom told me when I was in me "I can fix him" phase in highschool....you're never going to fix them, and if you do you're just fixing them for the next person they end up with.
My mom knows countless people similar to Op who dated people with various "issues", and without fail anytime the person reached a point that they felt "fixed", their relationship would end and the one they fixed would move on to another person who didn't know them when they were "messed up".
(Classic story. Dating/engaged forever, cold feet, splitting, then cold feet ends up married a year or less later)
Obviously the guy felt fixed enough to want to get married...just not to Op.
Also super messed up of the guy to cry woe is me when he's the one who left op, came back, and left again. And interestingly enough he created his own paradox.
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- 8/12/2023, 8:07:46 PM
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